From Squirmy to Sweet: Tips for Including Siblings in Newborn Portraits

Why Sibling Poses Are the Heart (and Challenge) of Newborn Sessions

As a newborn photographer in Charlottesville, I’ve had the privilege of witnessing and photographing countless growing families for the last 13 years. Each session is unique, but one thing remains constant: the most cherished photos are always the sibling poses. These moments, filled with love and connection, quickly become family favorites.

That said, capturing these images can be challenging—especially when siblings are under the age of five. It’s a tricky age filled with big emotions as they adjust to the arrival of a new baby. Adding to the complexity is the fact that, despite my extensive experience, I’m still a stranger to them. Yet, these portraits hold a special magic that makes every effort worthwhile. They beautifully document the tender, fleeting bond between siblings in those early days and become treasured memories for families to look back on.

Preparation Tips for Parents: Setting Your Toddler Up for Success

As a newborn photographer who has photographed over a thousand photoshoots, I’ve worked with many families, and I understand how important it is to set the stage for a smooth session—especially when toddlers are involved. Here are my top tips to help prepare your little one for sibling pose photos, ensuring everyone has a stress-free experience and walks away with images to treasure forever.

Hold Off on Screens Before the Session

While it might be tempting to hand over a tablet or phone to keep your toddler entertained, consider holding off on screens the day of your session. Screen time can sometimes overstimulate little ones, making it harder for them to transition into the calm, focused energy needed for photos. Instead, try interactive activities that keep them engaged but relaxed, like reading a favorite book or playing quietly.

Use Instant Gratification to Encourage Cooperation

Toddlers live in the moment, and the promise of a reward they’ll get “later” often doesn’t resonate with them. Instead, have small, immediate incentives on hand, like M&Ms, stickers, or bubbles. Simple, tangible rewards for a specific action—like “If you give your baby brother a kiss, you can have an M&M”—work wonders in keeping little ones motivated.

Set Realistic Expectations

It’s important to set realistic expectations for the session. Toddlers are unpredictable, and their cooperation might come in bursts. Trust that I’ve worked with children of all temperaments, and even if things seem chaotic, we’ll still capture those sweet, heartfelt moments you’re hoping for.

Bring Comfort Items

Having familiar items, like a favorite stuffed animal, blanket, or even a snack, can help toddlers feel secure and comfortable in a new environment. These can also be subtly incorporated into a few shots to capture their personality and connection to their little sibling.

Plan Around Their Schedule

Schedule the session for a time of day when your toddler is typically well-rested and fed. A well-timed nap and meal can make all the difference in their mood and willingness to participate.

By following these tips, you’ll help your toddler feel more at ease, making it easier to capture those magical sibling moments that families across Charlottesville love and treasure.

My Go-To Creative and Heartwarming Sibling Poses

Capturing the bond between siblings is all about creating moments that feel natural and genuine. One of my favorite go-to setups is having the older sibling sit and carefully hold their swaddled baby brother or sister. This classic sibling pose exudes love and pride, creating a timeless image that families adore.

Another favorite is having siblings lie down together, with the baby snuggled safely beside their big brother or sister. This pose feels intimate and highlights their connection in a simple, beautiful way.

For a more dynamic look, I often pose parents holding the newborn while the older sibling stands on a small stool, leaning in to kiss their baby sibling or touch their sibling—this setup captures the tenderness of a growing family in a truly memorable way.

For playful shots, I love placing the newborn in a cozy bucket while their sibling straddles it, adding a sense of fun and interaction.

favorite pose involves laying the baby on the floor and having their sibling lay on their belly beside them, arms wrapped protectively around their tiny partner in crime.

Each pose is designed with care to ensure both safety and comfort while showcasing the unique bond between siblings. These setups, paired with candid moments like a sibling softly singing or playing peek-a-boo with the baby, create a blend of posed and organic images that tell the story of your growing family in Charlottesville.

Why Charlottesville Families Love My Newborn Sessions

As a newborn photographer in Charlottesville, I’ve had the pleasure of working with many growing families in the area. From the bustling downtown to the peaceful suburbs, I know the charm of our community and the unique dynamics each family brings. My studio offers a welcoming, child-friendly environment that helps even the most nervous toddler feel at ease. Parents are welcome to visit before the session to tour the studio, meet me, and see the space where their family memories will be created.

Families often mention how much they appreciate the warm and comfortable environment. One parent shared, “Angela was so patient and made us all feel comfortable right away, especially our toddler. The session was so smooth, and the photos are absolutely beautiful!” Another client said, “The whole experience felt so personal, and Angela took the time to make sure we got the perfect shots. She made us feel at home, and we’ll treasure the photos forever.”

I’ve worked with families from all over Charlottesville, and I understand the importance of making each session personal and meaningful. Whether it’s capturing the tender first moments with a new sibling or preserving the excitement of a growing family, I take the time to ensure every detail reflects your family’s story. My goal is to create a relaxed atmosphere where everyone—big siblings included—feels comfortable and involved. This is your family’s moment, and I’m here to make sure it’s beautifully captured.

I’ve had the privilege of working with families from all over Charlottesville, Richmond & Crozet for almost 14 years. I know how important it is to capture these fleeting moments. Whether it’s the joy of welcoming a new sibling or the excitement of a growing family, I take the time to ensure every session is tailored to your story. I focus on creating a relaxed, comfortable environment where both parents and toddlers feel at ease, so we can capture those beautiful, authentic moments that will be cherished for years to come.

Once your session is complete, I’ll provide you with a beautiful heirloom online gallery in 14 days or less, so you can relive the magic of your family’s first moments together. From there, you can select your favorite images and choose from a variety of digital packages that suit your needs. If you’re ready to create stunning, timeless portraits of your growing family, I’d love to hear from you. Reach out today to book your session, and let’s capture these precious memories together.